MARRIED? Is your SEX DRIVE ^U^P^ there?

Victoria Harris
4 min readApr 20, 2021

3 Things that Maintain Romance

How long have you been married or in a domestic relationship? How have you maintained that? Who has the bigger sex drive? Why does the person with a lower sex drive have a, lower sex drive? Why did you divorce? Why did you break up with your partner? What part of the relationship died? ……

I don’t have all the answers. I just have my own answers from experience. I’ve been married 16 years and counting. So I’d like to think I know a few things. And when my sex drive is at it’s peak, there’s several things going on:

Shared Household Chores — Pull up a chair and take a seat. You and your partner should read this one. It’s not just my experience here! There’s actual research.

Sharing household tasks improves the quality and satisfaction of your relationship and in turn increases frequency of sexual intercourse ANDDD sexual satisfaction! (see brief below)

Now I’ll be honest. I’ve put more effort into Household chores. My hubby isn’t perfect but he tries and I think that has somewhat…